Bad Boys Need Love Too

It is called RealTalkRica. I don’t talk fairy-tale, I don’t talk fantasy. I talk real life experiences. MY life experiences. J

I have, over the years, often asked myself this question; “Why is it that I am (Ok WAS) always attracted to the Bad Boy?”

In all of my dating years, I have never been attracted to “Mr. Nice Guy”! I have always thought of nice guys as nerdy and of weak character. I have always  imagined life with Mr. Nice Guy to be BORINGGG, with prospects of him performing all the household chores like cooking, cleaning and doing the laundry. Hehehe… Isn’t that what nice guys do?  I think it is.  Yep, so that is how I have always imagined life would be with a ‘softy’. I know this may be far from how things would turn out in reality but I have never given myself a chance to find out.  So for as long as I can recall, the nice guys have always been the ones to get turned down.. These are the guys whose calls are ignored. These are the guys whose date offers are rejected. But the Bad Boys, NOW those… those buggers were always given first preference AND a seat in the front row. Mwahahaha!!  *SMH*

My friends often frowned upon my choice in men because they felt our characters were worlds apart. I think the explanation lies right there; Opposites attract right, Right! There was always something about the wayward guy that triggered an adrenaline rush in me. The very things that others found annoying were the very things that turned me on. How so?.... Well, I liked the guy who spoke with authority, the one who oozed confidence, the brave one, the risk taker, the bully! Yeah, the type who gave me instructions to follow. Lol! Yes, instructions.. Especially in the You Know Where. Grrrrrr!!!

I know I am not the only one of the Female Species who has felt this way. And well, truth be told, bad boys can be sweetest guys under the sun when they want to, so their characters are often a combination of “Dr. Jaykel and Mr. Hyde”. Yes, It is always a guaranteed roller coaster ride!

There is the obvious downside to the Bad Boy though.. Yeah, heartbreak is inevitable... Oh the Bad Boy will make you CRY! He will cheat on you like a MF. He won’t come home. He will get into all sorts of trouble, especially with the law! Lol! So, God forbid, you WILL spend many a lonely night on a wet pillow (from your river of tears, tee hee!) with your cell phone still in your hand calling and/or waiting for him to call!

Bad Boys aint no Good, Good boys aint no fun, or are they?.....  There’s only one way to find out!! Heek heek….