GOD, WHERE IS MY BOAZ?

I am reading a very interesting book by Stephan Labossiere, titled “GOD WHERE IS MY BOAZ”.

I have been inspired to dedicate this week’s article to all the single ladies out there who have reached a point in their lives where they are on the verge of giving up meeting Mr Right.

I understand that almost all your relationships have failed. I understand that you have always made an effort to make things work.  I understand that your marriage ended in divorce. Hey, I understand.

Take heart Oh Beautiful Woman!  Your past experiences do not spell the absence of hope for you in Love.

There is a wonderful love story in the Bible in the book of Ruth, about a God fearing widow who, against all odds, captured the heart of a great man, Boaz.  

You deserve to have someone in your life who will love you, care for you, motivate you, mentor you and encourage you. You deserve that special person- your Boaz!

I know you have kissed many frogs and none have turned into your Prince Charming. I know you have reached a point in your life where you are now willing to settle for Mr Wrong. You know very well who the Mr Wrong is in your life is. You know it because your intuition tells you so. You know it because he has been hurting you and is showing very little regard for your feelings. You know it because he is never there for you. You know it because you are not included in his plans for the future.

He is taking you for a ride and it is time you stepped out of that ride because you are going NOWHERE slowly.

You have probably spent many nights crying out to God. You are beginning to doubt your worth. You are starting to think you may have been cursed. You know you are a good woman, you know you have what it takes to be a great partner but things are not working out the way they should be.

Do not give up, it is not over until it is over! Your time is coming.

God’s plan for your life is for you to live a life of abundance.  Abundance of Grace. Abundance of Prosperity. Abundance of LOVE.  Do you believe this? Remember, God is not a Man that he should lie! His promises are Yes and Amen. Wow! Who would have thought that I had it in me to preach huh?

There is no need to under rate or degrade yourself. Your current situation does not render you less of a woman. You are perfectly imperfect just the way you are. Your scars, past, number of children, shape and skin colour all form part and parcel of who and what you are my lady!

Patience is a virtue Baby Girl.  True love will find you.  Stop searching, stop stressing, stop fretting! Just STOP.  Exhale, let it go and allow LOVE to FIND you, because it will, when you least expect it to, and under the strangest circumstances.   

In the meantime, enjoy your life as a singleton.

Just as Ruth was going about her business working in the veld when Boaz noticed her, your Prince will appear when you are least expectant.

Exercise caution though.. Do not fall in to the trap of mistaking your Boaz for that Joker who does not treat you right or appreciate you. Uhm, that married dude is not your Boaz hey… Just saying! Oh, lest I forget, guys who do not text you back are not of the Boaz species. Hehehehehe… This is my favourite line because I despise being ignored, so my Boaz had better get texting, and fast!

It would appear that I am fast becoming the Love Guru of the Internet. Experience Fam…. Experience!! Painful, brutal life lessons! 

Your girl Rica has been through the fire, so believe me when I say, I am nothing but pure GOLD now. Lucky is the fella who will settle down with yours truly. Lucky and blessed he is! Heek heek..

To my ladies out there; May we kiss frogs no more! Peace, be still.. Peace, BE STILL!!

 

Until next week, much love and God Bless!!!